parental education question help!?

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1. when praising a child there is no need to separate the child from the behavior ( T or F)

2. Children will never obey even when they understand what the parents want them to do ( T or F)

3. When parents own the problem , they should use active listening.
(T or F)

4.when the child owns the problem, the parent should use i-messages
(T or F)
 
1. f -- children should know that their actions don't effect how you see them. Even if you are praising them. When DD does something wrong I'll tell her that her choice was wrong. If she does something right, then her choice was good, or she did a good job. Not she's a good girl, bc she's always a good girl.
2. f -- but you can't over-reason with them either. And they won't/shouldn't be 100% obedient, because then they aren't qustioning authority and that's not cool.
3. t -- always listen to your kids. Unless you are too mad to listen right then. Then, give yourself a few minutes alone and then listen.
4. T -- I get scared when you get wander away from me. It lets kids know that you aren't just being a hard a$$, you are being genuine and a person to which they can relate.
 
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