Pain during sex while pregnant?

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This is my second pregnancy. (31 weeks along) When I had my first daughter, it took a long time for me to get back into a sexual relationship with my husband. Besides lack of time, for some reason I feel dirty having sex or even considering it. I used to be a sex-feign, really very kinky - lol. Now that I am pregnant again, I am absolutely afraid to do it, and when I do it is so painful. My husband does really seem to notice or care. He goes to bed after me because he stays up playing his video game and we always wake up to our baby crying. Also, I find that I can't stand his hygiene habits. I constantly obsess over them, and then I will sometimes say something about it and make him feel bad. Showering and brushing his teeth is a big issue. There is other things also that drives me crazy. But now it has gotten to the point where I am turned off by him and I don't feel any sexual feelings at all. ANd when I do I suppress them. And then when we actually do so it it is so uncomfortable that I just want it to end. I feel doomed.
 
One word: HORMONES!!!!


It's natural and research shows that sex during a pregnancy is supposed to be awesome! Anyway kindly explain to your hubby that you really don't care for it and that it could be his birthday present or something cruddy like that.

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Hormones can be so nasty. I really hope this passes for you. It took me almost a year to really start wanting my husband in a sexual way. I just wasn't interested. It could hurt you because you aren't ready. Seriously though brushing your teeth and showering are like the EASIEST things to do. Tell him to get real. Good luck.
 
I am 34 weeks and really don't like sex either the whole time that I am pregnant I know some people really get into it but not me. Just tell him that were the baby is sitting make have sex not so good. The other stuff like you hubby driving you crazy just sounds like good old fashion pergo hormones good luck. I hope it makes you feel better that you are not the only one with this problem. Just think its almost over and 6 weeks after the baby it will feel good again! (if you can fit it into your busy day! ) good luck
 
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