i'm 5'7 135 lbs.. i usually weigh 125.. i've always had alot of men interested in me but while i was on a break from dating i kind of stopped working out and half gained weight mostly in my stomach. i guess as long as you have people attracted to you and look good in your clothes the main reason to be really fit is for sex for alot of people.. well anyways, i just started becoming physically involved with a guy and i feel self concious about my midsection. im working on it now, but i just wonder if he's as turned on by me with my body not tip top shape. he's a personal trainer so he's used to really fine bodies.. honestly i'm not even sure why hes into me! lol.. when we have sex he doesn't kiss allover me and try to please me how most guys have done to me, so i wonder if this is because my body isn't as great as it usually is..im not cocky but i know i have a very pretty face and nice breasts but the midsection needs alot of work right now.. he always calls me and calls me back and seems interested, but he's not passionate towards my body during sex.
you can be brutally honest becasue i know my friends aren't going to tell me this stuff to my face.. i'm thinking maybe i should hold off sleeping with him again for about 3 weeks until i get my midsection slim again..
you can be brutally honest becasue i know my friends aren't going to tell me this stuff to my face.. i'm thinking maybe i should hold off sleeping with him again for about 3 weeks until i get my midsection slim again..