him up? The nephew is 17, while his lover is 19, and in college. Anywho, when looking at the family pix from vacation we all went on, he had facial expressions of shame. I felt sorry for him. Everyone in the family treated him w/respect like we would anyone else. They both just recently came out of the closet. Is there some way to make them feel more at ease? Not sure if either one of them dealt w/odd behavior; rejection at school or somewhere else.