OPK.. Other Peoples Kids... HATE THEM

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bigb

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I hate OPK, too. I really strive to make my two behave in public. I used to work in retail and in restaurants and I remember how pissed off I used to get with kids that didn't behave.

Part of the problem is we're not allowed to give our kids consequences for their actions. All these "experts" have said that even just yelling at your kids will cause them emotional damage!

I call bullshit.

There is a big difference between spanking a kid and beating a kid, yet these so called experts tell you to never physically correct your child. I suppose then the time my daughter, as a toddler, decided to throw herself down on our hardwood floor and throw a fit, banging her head and such, I shouldn't have restrained her and just let her bust her own head open?

Unfortunately, all this expert advice on parenting has given us a generation of disrespectful, rude, and downright obnoxious kids who really need an ass-whipping.
 
My dad raised me properly and never had to deal with me causing a fuss in public places. Of course, my dad enforced his rules with nice, healthy spankings whenever I broke them. My mom came up with some pretty creative punishments herself. My point here is that children will not learn unless there is some fear of punishment for any wrong actions. If the only thing they have to fear is being yelled at or grounded they are going to continue to do whatever it is they were doing wrong. I don't care what experts say, if I have children and they misbehave I'm going to punish them in the only effective way. Spanking is not beating.
 
Oh probably. There's always some bleeding heart out there looking to try and save the world.

too bad that's part of the problem anyhow.
 
I don't know whether you just worded this badly or what.

There is a world of difference between 'fear of punishment' and knowledge that certain actions will have certain consequences. The first involves no rational thought process, and blind fear can create bullies, whereas the second can actually promote a feeling of security in a child as there is a stability there.

I rambled a bit there. Did it make sense?
 
Sounds like me in my younger days...



Yes, it did. I totally agree that fear in a child of being unreasonably punished can create big issues for him or her. But there has to be a system of rewards as well, or else...well, they get more issues.

My mom brought this one little bratty kid home that is her friend's son. God, he was such a little penis, I gave that little kid an attitude adjustment, only because he was so in NEED of punishment, someone needed to give it to him, and it wasn't gonna be his son-of-a-bitch mother.
 
Hah. This is for shits an giggles. Fucken annoying little bastards. I remember one time i was in the grocery store and this little kid ran down about 5 isles knocking as much shit as he could off the shelves before his mother could catch him. When she did, she just fucken gave him a stern look and kept shopping while he screamed and yelled. I was ready to kill the bitch and her kid. If your kid is screaming and causing shit get them the fuck out of the area. :mad:
 
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