online dating chatting or texting, Am I wrong or right. is it unfaithful?

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I feel like I'm right and wrong. I keep invading his privacy yet every time I find something. This time it was a nonsexual conversation but...... when meeting someone new do you greet them by saying heey I'm looking to make new friends, or hey beautiful my names corree im23 are u single. PLEASE NO SMART REAPONSES, I'M SIMPLY TRYING TO PROVE A POINT.
 
you should talk to him. are they sexual conversation most of the time if so that is cheating not good. Or is he looking for a friend just a friend everyone needs friends. just trust your gut
 
This is the age old question... what is faithful?

When my husband and I married- we both had alot of friends of the opposite sex. Neither one of us are jealous, however, to keep us both on the same page- we both promised that we wouldnt do anything- or say anything that we wouldnt say in front of the other one.

I say, if it is non sexual- it is fine- as long as it doesnt take away the time that you both are together.

If it IS sexual.. then I personally think that it is not respectful to your partner. There are 2 kinds of instances of being unfaithful.. emotional, and physical. If either one of these lines are crossed- then it is cheating.

When meeting a new person- I would say "Hi, I am blah blah- just looking for a new friend to chat with"... and the soonest you can- add that you are in a relationship. Dont lead people on.

Why are you going out looking for new friends that are the opposite sex? If you are happy with your partner- they should be all you need! :)
 
Hate to say it, but these are NOT your "normal" friendly chats! They are out rite looking for someone to chat with, but other than the "normal every day" chats. I would ask him why is he doing this? IF you're married, this is asking for trouble..I would NOT put up w/this type "chatting", it's going to lead to problems in your relationship. Stop it before something happens & it's too late...best to you...:)
 
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