wannaknow89
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Ok so me and this guy have been talking since school started a few months ago but just for the past month our "talking" started to get a little more serious..and he likes me and i like him..a lot..but he doesnt want a relationship..he says that he doesnt want a relationship because he is just too busy with school, rotc, he is in a fraternity, and he is about to graduate this year(he is a senior in college)..but he doesn't want to be in a relationship when he knows he can't give it his all...part of me kind of feels like its just an excuse but the other part believes him..anyways i just dont know what to do..he has been trying to do things with me but im just not comfortable doing them given the situation..because if we are going to be just friends i dont want to ruin the relationship...and i know if i did something feelings would def be attached..the most we have done was kissed..and the passion and spark is there...im just confused..should I back off or just keep doing what im doing to see where things go?