i am married going on 11 years i love my husband dearly but we have sex cant get off unless he use hs finger onmy clitoris we had been married 6 years never got off didnt even know there wa such a thing as an orgasm iknow well we splitup i started seeing this guy and wow i found out what it was like 6 times a night well i mssed by hubby so we got back 2gather and i was gtn off with him for a good 6 months now i cant get off why