...others.? Ok, here goes. For you that understand this. He has always been a swinger and active with others. I came into his life almost 2 years ago knowing this. He seems to want this again more than I do and tells me that this spices up our lifes and that sex has nothing to do with love. We are not married and I do love him but feel he needs others more than he tells me. He is always on sites that are for meeting others for sex. Can sex and love truely be seperate? Porn is a very big part of his life.