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Jon
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Ok so I have been really lucky that my girlfriend is on birth control, and we have always had unprotected sex as long as I pull out she was fine with it. We both know we are clean and don't have anything. And it feels the best and most natural anyway because we can just go whenever we want to.
But after a recent pregnancy scare if you can really call it that, because she was just being paranoid about the unprotected sex because it was new for her and rightfully so it has changed everything.
Ok so I promised her that I would buy condoms for her because I really care about her and told we can be safe. But I honestly just bought them for her security I would never make the mistake not pulling out. So even though I told her I had them we still ended up having unprotected sex.
But today for the first time she asked me to put a condom on. And I did everything works fine she loves it all the same but I can't stand it. Its like I put a sock on or something. I can't feel the wetness, I can't feel the tingly. The only good thing is being able to unload without moving.
I told her this and she just says stuff like we just need to be safe. She asked me if I would take her to get an abortion if she got preggers so her mom would never know. And I told her yes even though I really don't want to do that. So being safe from that stand point I understand. But when the sex sucks what do I do?
Please help I need lots of answers!
But after a recent pregnancy scare if you can really call it that, because she was just being paranoid about the unprotected sex because it was new for her and rightfully so it has changed everything.
Ok so I promised her that I would buy condoms for her because I really care about her and told we can be safe. But I honestly just bought them for her security I would never make the mistake not pulling out. So even though I told her I had them we still ended up having unprotected sex.
But today for the first time she asked me to put a condom on. And I did everything works fine she loves it all the same but I can't stand it. Its like I put a sock on or something. I can't feel the wetness, I can't feel the tingly. The only good thing is being able to unload without moving.
I told her this and she just says stuff like we just need to be safe. She asked me if I would take her to get an abortion if she got preggers so her mom would never know. And I told her yes even though I really don't want to do that. So being safe from that stand point I understand. But when the sex sucks what do I do?
Please help I need lots of answers!