keyboardmike
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heyy everyone, so the girl i loved for over two years now finally knows that i am utterly in love with her. here is how the conversation goes. was it bad for me to do this or was it a good thing and i just have to be really patient.
her - "Are you in love with me.. or infatuated?"
me- "well its not infatuation, infatuated is short-lived. It's been over two years."
her -"what's two years?"
me- "since I felt this way."
her -"it's a scary feeling, isnt it? to me at least"
me- "it is def not a scary feeling for me, i dont want you to feel awkward/uncomfortable, you can block me out of your life if you like"
her -"why would i ever do that? and you think that blocking someone from your life fixes it? Well that's a new one."
me- "so you dont mind? and out of sight, out of mind i guess."
her - " Out of sight out of mind fixes nothing.. There's nothing that needs fixing anyways."
me - "true, its just hard. ya know? like no matter how many girls im around. It's just.. I dont know how to explain it. Like I dont notice anyone. No girl matters to me. Because I end up thinking about you."
her- "You can't control who you fall for.. I'm really not any different than them.. and I know you'll disagree, but I'm not. I just have weird little quirks to me that catch your attention more. But yes, I do know what you mean"
me- "but you are *her name*, You really are. You said the other night that you still have your innocence. Thats something that makes you stand out. You are proud of it. The amount of girls that think that way are so miniscule. I know that im not gonna win this argument. because you believe there are other girls like you out there. There is no one like you. I can't be more clear.. I know that you think this is just a phase or ill get over it. You're gonna meet some guy that will just sweep you off your feet and i will be happy for you. I just hope he never breaks your heart because my heart wouldnt be able to take it."
She hasnt responded back yet, and she might of passed out. but god, this is tough. i think i just need to be superrr patient and let her come around. I might of answered my own question but damn it. haha what does anyone else think by this dialogue?
her - "Are you in love with me.. or infatuated?"
me- "well its not infatuation, infatuated is short-lived. It's been over two years."
her -"what's two years?"
me- "since I felt this way."
her -"it's a scary feeling, isnt it? to me at least"
me- "it is def not a scary feeling for me, i dont want you to feel awkward/uncomfortable, you can block me out of your life if you like"
her -"why would i ever do that? and you think that blocking someone from your life fixes it? Well that's a new one."
me- "so you dont mind? and out of sight, out of mind i guess."
her - " Out of sight out of mind fixes nothing.. There's nothing that needs fixing anyways."
me - "true, its just hard. ya know? like no matter how many girls im around. It's just.. I dont know how to explain it. Like I dont notice anyone. No girl matters to me. Because I end up thinking about you."
her- "You can't control who you fall for.. I'm really not any different than them.. and I know you'll disagree, but I'm not. I just have weird little quirks to me that catch your attention more. But yes, I do know what you mean"
me- "but you are *her name*, You really are. You said the other night that you still have your innocence. Thats something that makes you stand out. You are proud of it. The amount of girls that think that way are so miniscule. I know that im not gonna win this argument. because you believe there are other girls like you out there. There is no one like you. I can't be more clear.. I know that you think this is just a phase or ill get over it. You're gonna meet some guy that will just sweep you off your feet and i will be happy for you. I just hope he never breaks your heart because my heart wouldnt be able to take it."
She hasnt responded back yet, and she might of passed out. but god, this is tough. i think i just need to be superrr patient and let her come around. I might of answered my own question but damn it. haha what does anyone else think by this dialogue?