Noneya Jones
New member
recently reconncted with this guy I used to be involved with about a month ago.Everything was going good, but I had my reservations about some of the"rules" he wanted to lay with me before we continued our "relationship" One of the rules he said I must do is there is no popping up at his apartment and if I do, he will get a restraining order,because i popped up at his apartment about six months ago and his baby mother lives exactly down stairs from him, and to add, on the apartment phone directory his name is under the apartment that she stays in, so when I popped up, I rang her doorbell, and asked was he there and she got upset and asked him :"Why is this woman coming to my apartment asking for you" so I asked her if they stayed together and she just told me to ask him and started yelling and acting crazy, then his son came out and seen me, so he says no popping up,the second rule is to not call his cell phone several times, (because he says he finds that annoying) he also told me to call him on his work cell phone because he doesn want "people in his business" and when he leaves work he turns it over to the company, and lastly, he said that If I see him out with other women friends then dont get upset because right now hes not looking for a relationship, so I agreed because I wasnt really sure how i felt about him anyway..so everything was looking good, he would call every other day, and I would see him twice a week, we would go out and stuff, and he sort of put it out there that he wanted to be in a relationship with me, but I didnt really take it seriously because I just thought it could all be game, so last saturday we went out, and at the end of the date he says I want to see you tommorrow, let s go out again, I say sure..so the next day, I text him did he still want to go out, because it was raining really hard, so he agreed we should postpone our date for monday or tuesday, so monday/tuesday come, no phone call nothing, so i text him like "Do you think that a mans word should be his bond" early wednesday morning, I get no response until when he got to work, he calls me like Hey just wanted to see how u were doing " and I ask him about the text and he says he never recieved it, so I ask him about what happened, he says he was kinda sick and he just sort of forgot, and he goes into how he needs to work on his ettiqutie because sometimes he can be selfish, and he apologized so we talked for an hour, and my battery cut off, so i try calling him, no response, ..I try texting him, no response, and I notice that If I call him when hes not at work he does not respond to my texts, and it happened again this saturday, I inivted him to go see a movie, and hes like "Oh I didnt get that much sleep last night because I am getting ready for my trip to leave and I had my son"so I talk to him, and he says let me call you back its around midnight, and I try texting him at like 2 and 3 o clock in the morning, no response, and again I just notice that if I call him when he gets off which is after 1 o clock he doesnt answer unless we ve made arrangements to go out, so i just texted him to not contact me anymore because I dont have time for games, am i wrong?