Number of erections per sex session?

bubba

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Does anyone know where I can find a chart of the average number of erections per sex session, per age?

Maybe I can get a poll going here too.

I am 26 years old and I have an average of 2 full erections per session. Sometimes I can have sex the 3rd time, but it's not very frequently possible. I also noticed that I can easily get oral sex done the 3rd time, but not intercourse.

I've tried to blame this low number to several factors.

I've been under a lot of stress lately, financial problems, my parents are getting a divorce, etc.

My girlfriend was not a virgin, while I was, when we began having sex about a year ago, so maybe some kind of nervousness about not living up to expectations.

Not knowing how many times I could do it when I was younger, I don't really have anything I can compare with, so I've also blamed this on my age. The only thing I can compare with is her previous partner; she says that sometimes they had sex 7 times. He was 18 years old at the time.

Does anyone know what is the likely cause? Or maybe it's a little of everything.
Btw, our average sex session lasts 2 hours.
 
7 times was most likely a jack rabbit session for each. Three is pretty much the norm for a slow and more defined, satisfying approach to the situation. A physical climax for either partner should not always be the expected outcome and should be accepted when it is not. Just a close relationship and the trust that is put into a sexual experience should be considered. When two people have sex, each are putting the other person life into the hands of their respective partners. That act alone should count for something. Both will live with outcome regardless of what happens. Acceptance is the key word for a better outcome. With that in mind a more relaxed atmosphere should develop the trust and sincerity that culminates a mutual understanding.
 
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