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japignijb19
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My wedding is about a month away, and my future M.I.L is been a very interesting person to handle so far. There really is too much detail to really explain in a short paragraph. Just to give you an idea what’s gone on with her, First my fiancé and I met on a mission trip last year in 2008, and then he moved up to be with me 2 months later and then we were engaged 2 months after that and now getting married in sept 2009. Since he has moved up here to be with me, she has been very upset with him a lot saying that he doesn’t talk to her anymore and never tells her anything and she has retaliated a few times by not telling him stuff that might be important and using me as a messenger which I put to an end real quick, One incident, they came up to visit one time and we were at a pet store and I mentioned to my fiancé that he should get something for his cat at his parents’ house, and his mom then preceded to tell us that the cat had died......3 MONTHS AGO. When we asked why they didn’t tell us sooner she replied with "Well, you don’t ever tell me anything why should I tell you anything" and just recently we learned that his uncle had died.....thru a bulletin notice from 2 weeks ago that she sent in the mail. She as now started to ask us about our wedding reception and if we are having dancing, when we told her yes she got very upset about it (we are church of Christ (non-denominational) and dancing isn't really liked in our church) we are not having the wedding at the church and we are not going to force anyone to stay for the reception if they don't want to. She go so angry with us though that she told my fiancé that they weren't going to come to the wedding, then when I talked to her, she said she only said that out of anger, but won’t tell my fiancé that she’s coming cause she’s upset with him.....I guess my question is...WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!! I don’t want to fight with here right before the wedding and I don’t want our wedding to be all filled with anger and awkwardness because of all that gone on. Help me!