Not a question just a rant about TTC for forever!!!?

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First let me say sorry, I am just so frustrated!

Aren't you all so sick of all the doctor appointments and scheduled BDing??? I mean I have been trying for so long and it just makes me so mad that you get poked and proded, all dignity is lost by how many people have been down in the nether region, then you take your temp every moring thinking OK this is going to be the month and you have your BDing at all the right times, you hang your legs over the head board until you have lost all sense of feeling in your toes, then you for go that shot of tequila (really just a glass or two of wine...but it's the point!), no sushi, you skip the coffee all because you have ovulated (you think you did anyway) and you don't want to do anything to cause you to not get preggers. Not to mention taking the prenatal vitamins that make your stomach sick, then you have your hopes up because AF is late this month and you think YEA! it finally worked...you go out spend $18.00 on a test....just to get another BFN??? You think well maybe the test was wrong so you wait another day or two spend another $18.00 on a test (because if you by the cheap ones you think it won't be accurate) and you get another BFN only to have AF show up the next morning. So not only did you just get the biggest let down but you had to go an extra week with no sushi or drinks??? Then you go to the grocery store and see some 15 year old with a baby and pregnant belly buying her groceries with food stamps! (not that there is anything wrong with food stamps but you get the point)

Sorry just wanted to see how many others get as frustrated as I do! I know the day will come finally when I end up with my little beautiful baby and it will all be worth it, I just wish it would happen soon!

Sending you all lots of baby dust and well wishes!

I am 6 days late got a BFN this morning, still no AF but I am keeping my fingers crossed she will not show up!
 
wow, i read that and i feel you. i have been TTC for nearly 3 years and still nothing. i also hate seeing young teens out there having babies and it's depressing. i hope this is your month, i even hope it's my month. i am 8-9 days late and have had 3 BFN but i have no symptoms of AF nor do i have any for pregnancy but my husband and i are keeping our fingers crossed. Good Luck to you and to all of us TTC *Baby Dust* to everyone!! We're all going through the same things
 
I am so sorry to hear you are having a such difficult time TTC. It just seems so trying the longer you go and seeing baby things all around you. It took the better part of a year for me to get pregnant with my second baby, so I sort of know how you feel. I'm keeping my fingers and toes crossed that this is the month for you!!!
 
Oh goodness......I can understand your frustration. Feel free to vent to us whenever you want.....

Baby dust to you!
 
Oh Honey!! I know how you feel. I do not want to offend anyone but there are so many people out there who do not deserve to be parents. Here we are all ready for it and it won't happen. I have also done EVERYTHING that everyone and all of the doctors have said to do. WHAT ARE WE DOING WRONG? You are not the only one who is feeling this way. It's so completely unfair and depressing.
I just last week vented to everyone on Yahoo Answers on my feelings. Please know that you are not alone. There are really no words that will make it happen...otherwise I would have sent them your way by now. Please hang in there. Someday you will have your baby.
Please stay strong and we are all here for you! Best of Luck!
 
((HUGS)) The TTC roller coaster really sucks. I am really hoping this is your month! *~*~*~*~*
 
Oh girl, i feel like i just wrote that myself....specially the testing & getting AF the very NEXT morning.
It sucks, it sucks SOOOOOOOO much to see teens with like 2 babies and hopping on buses(not that there is ANYTHING wrong with taking a bus), or the occational 17 year old coming on here asking if she should have an abortion... but you know what i mean to have everything ready & just need that miracle that you have been wishing & crying over for so long.
I did not have a "period" this month just spotted 2 days so i tested & it was a BIG FAT NEGATIVE....
This was a week ago and i am having funny sympthoms but i refuse to test because i think it might put me down more to see a BFN again.
Good luck 2 you, me & all of us here TTC.
Hope this is our year!
 
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