Jorque Posito
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How can I stop resenting my parents for being such incompetent parents and irresponsible adults?
I am 21 years old and currently live with them (will move out when the option is there).
The relationship is seemingly okay but deep down I really resent them for all the negative impact that they have made on me and who I've grown up to become.
I really resent the both of them for robbing me of becoming a normal emotionally healthy adult.
I resent them for robbing me of the ability to form emotionally healthy relationships with others.
I resent them for not teaching me anything as I grew up. Those idiots forgot that after you **** for babies, there comes responsibility; that there is more to parenting than just food on the table.
Most importantly, I resent them for robbing me of the ability to believe in higher/intangible values like love, affection, trust, respect, family, responsibility towards the people close to you.
It wasn't until a couple of years ago when I did a lot of introspection when I realized the degree to which they seem to have ****** me up for good. I can't imagine how I could possibly go on to lead a normal life and become a good lover/father after all this. It's as if the unconditional-love delusion has been taken away from me for good. My sister is also severely affected but she doesn't even realize it.
I am 21 years old and currently live with them (will move out when the option is there).
The relationship is seemingly okay but deep down I really resent them for all the negative impact that they have made on me and who I've grown up to become.
I really resent the both of them for robbing me of becoming a normal emotionally healthy adult.
I resent them for robbing me of the ability to form emotionally healthy relationships with others.
I resent them for not teaching me anything as I grew up. Those idiots forgot that after you **** for babies, there comes responsibility; that there is more to parenting than just food on the table.
Most importantly, I resent them for robbing me of the ability to believe in higher/intangible values like love, affection, trust, respect, family, responsibility towards the people close to you.
It wasn't until a couple of years ago when I did a lot of introspection when I realized the degree to which they seem to have ****** me up for good. I can't imagine how I could possibly go on to lead a normal life and become a good lover/father after all this. It's as if the unconditional-love delusion has been taken away from me for good. My sister is also severely affected but she doesn't even realize it.