no sex life. What can I do?

[Bob B]

Ive been with with my gf /fiance for 6 years. We barely have sex ever. And by barely I mean once a month. It is very frustrating for a guy and I don't think she realizes it. We recently got into a fight because I told her the reason I haven't married her is because we don't have sex and I don't want to be in a sexless marriage because I may end up cheating on her if I spend the rest of my life sexless. She got mad and told me it's because I don't treat her very well, yet she has used other exuses as well in the past. Is there anything I can do?

 

[Re-a-lity]

you shouldn't B having sex before marriage n e wayz... even though society today does it a lot... its wrong!!

 

[perrin]

ask her what is going wrong! mabe she want you to treat her
like a princess usually woman needs to hear love exprecions
tell her that you love her and that make love is very important in a relationship
mabe she thinking that all you want is sex tell her that
she is the most important person in you live

invite her to hangin out wearing you better cloths
conserve your self in good shape i dont know! make some thing that realy impact her


if doing all this she dont change let her go
and i shure you will get a woman that realy loves you!
thanks and good luck!

 

[shadowroo]

Well Bob...has your relationship always been like it is now? Has there been a turning point in your relationship that has cause this "slow down" in your intimacy? Maybe those are things you should consider. Another issue now is the fact that you told your fiance' that you may end up cheating on her because you don't get enough sex. Hmmmm not sure if I'd want to marry someone who told me that! Sorry to say it Bob but that probably wasn't the right way to approach that subject with her. I know it's very frustrating for you and it might be with her as well..have you talked to her about it in a "non accusing" way? Hopefully you two can work it out and spark a new romance. Good Luck!