NO SEX DRIVE WHAT-SO-EVER!!?

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I am 31 and have been with the same wonderful man for over 10 years but in the last 4 or 5 years, I have noticed a decrease in my sex drive. I actually dread doing it. It's like I do it to keep him happy and that is NOT how I want to live. I get mad when he attempts to fool around. Some friends told me that I may need more testosterone. I have asked my Dr. and she says that I could be going through menopause early and it's just my age, women's sex drives slow down. I don't want to believe this. Please help. Thank you.
 
OMG! Me too! My husband thinks I hate him, its making things so hard for us, and I cant seem to convince myself to want to!! We've been together for 21 years, and used to do it like rabbits! I dont know what happened, but its driving me crazy! My sympathies to you, if you figure out what helps, please let us know!!
 
Women's sex drives do slow down naturally - usually at an age between 45 and 55 - but they're normally at their *peak* between 28 and 35.

Stress, depression, marital difficulties, medications, birth control hormones and many other things can (and very frequently do) cause decrese or even loss of libido... and *these* are the things you ought to talk about with your doc.
 
Im going trough the same thing and im only 21 so i do not think its menopause. maybe its something deeper like you been stressed or you got to much going on. You should have a " PLEASE ME DAY" and have your husband do all the work and you just try to lay back and relax. Hope this helps!
 
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