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Evieuk
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I've always had low/no sex drive but its causing issues in my 5 yr relationship. We have two children, the youngest is now 2 yrs - Although the sex drive problems have been there since I can remember (well since my late teens anyway and im now in my late 20's. Ive had three serious relationships and in all, we didnt have sex the first time for a least a couple of months. Ive been on and off the pill but the only thing that's made any difference to my libido has been during pregnancy or when im on (but not so much when on). Right now, my partner and I have sex about 1 every 2 months, its horrendous and now i even find it hard to talk about the S word because im embarassed and ashamed. If I don't feel like sex it can really upset me to do it anyway, it feels awkward and just....not right. I am sexually attracted to my man, i find him almost perfect for me in every other way, i adore him and although we've had our fair share of problems, were still stong and I love him as much as i ever did. Im not refusing to go to the doctors, but i just feel like im going to be fobbed off and it takes me weeks to get the time off work to see the doctor and i dont want to go and see someone and talk about it, i just cant see it helping!!!!! Just after advice really, the situation is getting worse in me, because im getting angry at myself which opposes the 'good feelings' anyway...thanks for any replies