No sex and pregnancy?

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iheartoasis

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I know sex is tottally safe and me and my partner have had it untill i was around 20 weeks although i had some bleeding and wasnt sure if it was safe, the next time it happened it wasnt from baby and there was nothing to worry about im 33 weeks now i dont realy want to have sex because i feel like a whale but my boyfriend never ever asks or tries to have sex with me i feel so unattractive i just think he wont ever want to have sex with me again. I think im being paranoid but my body has changed alot and i dont think he finds me attractive anymore
 
He may be avoiding suggesting sex because he's afraid of hurting you or the baby - especially with the bleeding early on - or because he senses that asking you when you're probably not in the mood will upset or stress you.

You need to get this out in the open with your partner. Explain that you're feeling neglected and vulnerable and need his support here - don't be afraid to tell him what you need, it's often difficult for fathers to know what they can do without feeling they're pressuring their wife/girlfriend to have sex. There are plenty of ways you can be intimate without having full sex: massage, spooning, general making-out and, er, other ways ;)
 
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