Grammar101
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This girl and I have a lot in common. Our taste, morals, and pretty much everything is relatively the same. But lately I find myself unable to talk to her. We're at the point where we're done getting to know each other (we know basically all there is to know) I'm sure we could learn more from each other, but I'm not sure how to get new things out of her. I can't remember how we talked before, my mind is in a blur.We went from talking for hours daily to hardly talking at all. (in comparison anyway) I feel like our relationship should be growing, not diminishing, especially since we have so much in common.
Her feelings should be getting stronger, but they aren't because she feels like I'm changing. (I have changed, I find myself saying random dumb things to prolong our conversation. It's only after the conversation occurs that I find myself realising that I'm not being myself.)
The thing is, my life is boring. I have nothing to talk about. I'd talk about random daily things if I could, but I have absolutely nothing going on atm. I'm an out of work/school teenager who has nothing going for him at the moment. I'd talk, but I have nothing to say. I love talking about her, but I'm more compatible with her than I have been with any other girl that I have ever dated, so I'm sad to say that there isn't much going on with her either. What am I supposed to say to her?
Now, there are times where we have great conversations about random things that I can't seem to remember the next day, and those chats will be great. We'll both be in great moods, and it seems like there's hope for us. But then there are other days where I have nothing to say, I don't think ahead or I over-think and nothing comes out. She'll end up talking to someone else and I'll get jealous/frustrated, and it shows. We'll fight and she'll get frustrated with me.
What do I do? What should we talk about? It shouldn't be this hard, we have so much in common.
Her feelings should be getting stronger, but they aren't because she feels like I'm changing. (I have changed, I find myself saying random dumb things to prolong our conversation. It's only after the conversation occurs that I find myself realising that I'm not being myself.)
The thing is, my life is boring. I have nothing to talk about. I'd talk about random daily things if I could, but I have absolutely nothing going on atm. I'm an out of work/school teenager who has nothing going for him at the moment. I'd talk, but I have nothing to say. I love talking about her, but I'm more compatible with her than I have been with any other girl that I have ever dated, so I'm sad to say that there isn't much going on with her either. What am I supposed to say to her?
Now, there are times where we have great conversations about random things that I can't seem to remember the next day, and those chats will be great. We'll both be in great moods, and it seems like there's hope for us. But then there are other days where I have nothing to say, I don't think ahead or I over-think and nothing comes out. She'll end up talking to someone else and I'll get jealous/frustrated, and it shows. We'll fight and she'll get frustrated with me.
What do I do? What should we talk about? It shouldn't be this hard, we have so much in common.