No career,no job,no life,no money,no car? How should I solve this ?

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NIGHTMARE

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I'm jobless more than half years, I don't even have a goal in my life all I do is sit my *** at home being a loser my social life is sucks I don't have much friends around me ,most of I know they're studying if not they're work.Since last years December like that I have quit college because of my lack of study and ending with bad result so I gave up.

Until now I still don't know what I really interest in and where my potential at,I had a interview for admin job before its abt guide kids,at that time I was being nervous and confusedly cause lack of confident,no experiences and negative thought .I'm a little bit shyness so the supervisor said I'm not suitable for this job after that I move on.

I usually go out to Church weekend,the rest day I spend time read books or internet ..arg I feel like my life is meaningless at now i think when 30 years later I will regret of what I have done cause I'm wasting a lot time I don't even like other ppl or y'all have a purpose and aim..I have a lot unhappy experiences I wish I can get rid of it ..

Where should I go and what should I do to start afresh ???
 
start by getting a job (get a part time /full time job in catering, for example as a waiter, in a call centre or whatever to have at least SOME form of income; it shouldn't be so difficult to get a job in a cafe' or restaurant/shop etc). in the meantime, apply for other jobs (better paying ones) and hopefully you'll end up with a better paying job in a couple of months.

in the meantime, start doing some exercise (you don't have to pay gym/pool memberships; just a walk in the park, go jogging/swimming, voluntary work, some outdoor activity). if you start working (any kind of work) and exercise you'll start feeling better. Start saving some money and spend your money wisely. after some time you can reward yourself by going on a holiday/taking a short break somewhere. GOOD LUCK!
 
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