I am a freshman at college and I am not having a good time despite the plethora of new girls to choose from. I have always been completely normal and natural socially in friendly situations where I knew my friends (girls or guys) and I could just be myself. I'm not only interested in picking girls up but sometimes I can't even bring myself to talk to them like a normal person. It's not always, but a decent amount of the time.
However I have never been particularly skilled with girls, I'm attractive so I have my successes, but I've never been great talking to girls on a more than friendly level at all. I guess flirting kind of scares me in a way, even though its a good feeling when I can do it well without psyching myself out.
To make things worse I now go to a school that is predominantly guys. Since I have gotten here my interaction with any girls has been so little that now I don't even know what to do when I'm around them. I feel like I've gone from bad to worse in terms of my interaction with girls. A girl literally just came up to me and hit on me three hours ago, and I froze up and ruined the opportunity.
I know I sound ridiculous but anyone who has been here and lived it (and hopefully it turned out well) tell me how it happened...
However I have never been particularly skilled with girls, I'm attractive so I have my successes, but I've never been great talking to girls on a more than friendly level at all. I guess flirting kind of scares me in a way, even though its a good feeling when I can do it well without psyching myself out.
To make things worse I now go to a school that is predominantly guys. Since I have gotten here my interaction with any girls has been so little that now I don't even know what to do when I'm around them. I feel like I've gone from bad to worse in terms of my interaction with girls. A girl literally just came up to me and hit on me three hours ago, and I froze up and ruined the opportunity.
I know I sound ridiculous but anyone who has been here and lived it (and hopefully it turned out well) tell me how it happened...