Nerd in college and depressed? Loner? Does life get better or are these the

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Hannah

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Get yourself out there in public. One of the best ways is to go to a bar and grille (since you can't drink yet) with other people your age and just hang out. Organize your time to study, then take the free time to go meet people. Once you meet people, and make friends, you'll feel better. Just don't be too self-conscious. Besides, looks aren't everything. (:
 
"best years"? I go to college, but still live at home. I make good grades, but have no friends and little social life. I've never dated (or even kissed a girl, and I'm 20) I'm shy and have a stuttering problem. I am also not the best looking. I feel like a big loser.

Any advice?
 
not even one friend? ok, well, make an effort, smile at at least one person a day, or get a hobby, join a group, something...i don't really know, i'm not good at advice, but i don't think those are the best years, i think "the best years" are different for everyone, and good things will happen, i know that!
 
well your problem is not going to get fixed sitting there and thinking about it. why don't you go do something about it. make yourself buff, buy a motorcycle, talk to more people.... these are your last years to mess around.
 
Becme more sociualble, make friends, and hang out on campus with them.
Stop feeling like you're crap - be optimistic and confident in who you are.
 
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