John Vernon
New member
Alright... hear comes a pretty pathetic story... ill try and keep it short lol.
There's this extremely attractive girl who's my age that works at the grocery store near me that I really want to talk to. She's hot, energetic, goofy, carries her self with a lot of self confidence but not like she's better than anyone (if that makes sense)... not your average hot girl... sounds great right!... not if your me... why you ask? Well let's see, I'm 23 and never asked ANY girl out before... I have no freaking clue what I'm doing...
When I was younger (up until I was about 20 or so) I was extremely quiet, shy, NO self confidence, ugly... (yes I was because I didn't care) and terrified to talk to girls... I was real bad. The past 3 years I've gotten a lot better, I feel way more confident in all aspects of life (except girls) more attractive I definitely wouldn't call myself ugly anymore, and an all around better person. Now I want to work on the last thing on my list... girls lol its not that I'm not confident in myself its the fact that I'm just now trying what most guys do when there 15... I feel way to past my time to be trying to figure this out but I guess you have to start sometime. I guess what I'm asking is how should I go about approaching her and possibly asking her out... I'm not scared of being rejected I just would like to do this right and at least have a chance. Any advice I can get would be appreciated greatly! I feel pretty dumb being 23 and no clue how to ask a girl out...
There's this extremely attractive girl who's my age that works at the grocery store near me that I really want to talk to. She's hot, energetic, goofy, carries her self with a lot of self confidence but not like she's better than anyone (if that makes sense)... not your average hot girl... sounds great right!... not if your me... why you ask? Well let's see, I'm 23 and never asked ANY girl out before... I have no freaking clue what I'm doing...
When I was younger (up until I was about 20 or so) I was extremely quiet, shy, NO self confidence, ugly... (yes I was because I didn't care) and terrified to talk to girls... I was real bad. The past 3 years I've gotten a lot better, I feel way more confident in all aspects of life (except girls) more attractive I definitely wouldn't call myself ugly anymore, and an all around better person. Now I want to work on the last thing on my list... girls lol its not that I'm not confident in myself its the fact that I'm just now trying what most guys do when there 15... I feel way to past my time to be trying to figure this out but I guess you have to start sometime. I guess what I'm asking is how should I go about approaching her and possibly asking her out... I'm not scared of being rejected I just would like to do this right and at least have a chance. Any advice I can get would be appreciated greatly! I feel pretty dumb being 23 and no clue how to ask a girl out...