SweetLuvlyMe
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me and my bf has been dating on and off for more than 6 years. it's a very long duration for us. last two months we had a big argument. i told him what i've been feeling all this while. for the past 6 months or more, i'm not sure what is my feelings towards him. whether it's 'in love' with him or just stay with him because i'm comfortable with him, like a bff. at the same time, my 2 years ex bf came (we date when i'm not dating my current bf. he's not a rebound). he didn't make any thing. we are more like bff now. i still love him like i used to love him. i told my bf and my bff that what happened between me and my bf has nothing to do with my bff. so both sides already clear about it. my bf can see our future, married with kids and all. but for me, at most i can see what happen in a year. that's all. i don't know whether i should continue this relationship or not. some says that the 6 years duration is way too long for dating, so we were probably like bored with each other. my bf had tried many things for me and us.
here i tell also about my bff (2 years ex bf). if anyone can make a conclusion or what, it will be very helpful. for the past 2 years, sometimes my bff showed me that he wants me, but sometimes not. so to be clear about it, i did ask him. but he don't have any answer for that. i asked him 3 times in 2 months. maybe it sounds that i'm desperate. but i'm not. i just need it to be clear, that's all. few days before when we hung out, he wore the t-shirt i gave him last year. i did notice that but i didn't tell him about that. and yes i did asked him about his feelings. it was the third time. he only point out to his mp3 player's song which was just a dream sang by nelly. was he trying to say that i'm the one who just be in my dream, or was it him. the meaning behind that songs sounds like the guy can only have the girl in his dream, not in reality. so? i asked him for a concrete answer, but he just didn't give any; he doesn't have any answer.
i'm totally confused. any help will be very thoughtful..
here i tell also about my bff (2 years ex bf). if anyone can make a conclusion or what, it will be very helpful. for the past 2 years, sometimes my bff showed me that he wants me, but sometimes not. so to be clear about it, i did ask him. but he don't have any answer for that. i asked him 3 times in 2 months. maybe it sounds that i'm desperate. but i'm not. i just need it to be clear, that's all. few days before when we hung out, he wore the t-shirt i gave him last year. i did notice that but i didn't tell him about that. and yes i did asked him about his feelings. it was the third time. he only point out to his mp3 player's song which was just a dream sang by nelly. was he trying to say that i'm the one who just be in my dream, or was it him. the meaning behind that songs sounds like the guy can only have the girl in his dream, not in reality. so? i asked him for a concrete answer, but he just didn't give any; he doesn't have any answer.
i'm totally confused. any help will be very thoughtful..