LizDaRealest
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About me: I'm the type of girl that always gives advice to my friends, help them with depressive issues when they felt ugly or had low self-esteem. I always believed I was the most valuable, beautiful girl in the world (not being cocky, but just having self-confidence). But when I hit college and expected all these guys to hit on me, while ALL of my friends have 4-5 guys liking them (we're only a month into college), and I haven't had 1, I'm starting to get depressed myself 
Problem: I have probably the worst love life. I'm 18 and the farthest I've gotten with a guy was just talking as acquaintances. No guy has ever approached me or simply told me I was pretty, or cute, or sexy, or anything complimentary. Every guy I've liked (from hot to not) has rejected me w/out me even telling them that I liked them. I feel absolutely ugly. I'm in college, and my roomate has had 4 guys like her, and a bunch of guys mention that she's cute in a one-month period, and she looks perfectly average to me.
Question: WTF am I supposed to do??? All I want is one guy, just one to compliment me, or smile at me, or just talk to me, if I guy told me he liked me, I think I would flip over backwards. I can't be THAT ugly can I? What are the basics of beauty to you? Straight teeth, straight hair, makeup, eyebrows, what?? How do you boost your self-esteem? I feel like absolute s***, and I can't even enjoy college I'm at or hang out with friends actively. I thought it was so stupid when girls felt this way, but I never realized how major and essential it is to have a male figure around you...please, please help in any way you can, all answers are much appreciated.
Problem: I have probably the worst love life. I'm 18 and the farthest I've gotten with a guy was just talking as acquaintances. No guy has ever approached me or simply told me I was pretty, or cute, or sexy, or anything complimentary. Every guy I've liked (from hot to not) has rejected me w/out me even telling them that I liked them. I feel absolutely ugly. I'm in college, and my roomate has had 4 guys like her, and a bunch of guys mention that she's cute in a one-month period, and she looks perfectly average to me.
Question: WTF am I supposed to do??? All I want is one guy, just one to compliment me, or smile at me, or just talk to me, if I guy told me he liked me, I think I would flip over backwards. I can't be THAT ugly can I? What are the basics of beauty to you? Straight teeth, straight hair, makeup, eyebrows, what?? How do you boost your self-esteem? I feel like absolute s***, and I can't even enjoy college I'm at or hang out with friends actively. I thought it was so stupid when girls felt this way, but I never realized how major and essential it is to have a male figure around you...please, please help in any way you can, all answers are much appreciated.