lovelyday2009
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Guys, why is he really mean to me?
Why would you be patronizing and mean to a girl that you're seeing? Why would you feel the need to insult her and belittle her, especially if you're the one that initiates activities? And you guys do stuff together like go to dinner, hold hands at the movies, have sex, cuddle, make each other breakfast, go to parties and concerts together. We brush our teeth in the same sink, he kisses me on the lips in the morning, lays his head on my lap and we have fun ad laugh. But then he'll call me stupid or patronize me.
Why would you be so mean to her? He says he does that to prevent me from liking him so much, so that I wouldn't want a serious relationship with him. Is that an excuse? Also, I had a brief relationship with someone else during the time we were seeing each other, and he seemed okay with it because we're not official.
What is the real issue here? Why is he mean to me, but wants to spend time and he calls for little things, and checks up on me?
Why would you be patronizing and mean to a girl that you're seeing? Why would you feel the need to insult her and belittle her, especially if you're the one that initiates activities? And you guys do stuff together like go to dinner, hold hands at the movies, have sex, cuddle, make each other breakfast, go to parties and concerts together. We brush our teeth in the same sink, he kisses me on the lips in the morning, lays his head on my lap and we have fun ad laugh. But then he'll call me stupid or patronize me.
Why would you be so mean to her? He says he does that to prevent me from liking him so much, so that I wouldn't want a serious relationship with him. Is that an excuse? Also, I had a brief relationship with someone else during the time we were seeing each other, and he seemed okay with it because we're not official.
What is the real issue here? Why is he mean to me, but wants to spend time and he calls for little things, and checks up on me?