Need help? No sex help please just read info.....?

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James

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I was talking with the misses i have found that i have not been her best sexual experience, way less so than what she has done with herself, and she says not to worry my self that i am amazing, but I cant get over the fact that even when i have tried my damnedest, done everything imaginable i still come up short, I'm not looking for sex help and i know the difference in time it takes for a woman to come to pleasure, and how much time it takes and effort I'm really really stressing i do not need sex help, its just really got me down and has completely destroyed my sex drive and i was wondering if any one could give me some advice on how to get over it mentally, so i can keep trying physically. I just need someone to tell me how to rid myself of this mentally so i can back to having sex i just need some help on getting over my inadequacy.
 
My advice to you? Do not let it eat at you! There is nothing wrong with you and your feelings are normal. But, I do not think you have lost your drive and it just takes time to find the right person to really develop a healthy sexual relationship. Do not put yourself down or get depressed over it or you might start not wanting to pursue with another relationship or you could start disliking sex. You are normal and do not let anyone put you down or tell you different. It will work out for you and you will find that a loving sexual relationship with the right person is worth the wait. Cheer up-you will be ok!
 
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