There was an episode where a military war widow lost another husband to murder. this murder was under investigation and they questioned the new (2nd time around widow). They asked her in so many words why she kept marrying military men, was it for the money?? SGLI?? Her answer was something like...she desires a certain type of man, one who is honorable and brave or something like that. I REALLY want to know this answer. My husband was KIA and I am prior service..served in Iraq as a truck driver...and will only date men who served or are serving. What she says is exactly how I feel.