My wife's previous (marriage before) sex story and her character? Should i love her?

Rajesh

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I got married in Nov 2008. My wife’s elder sister’s residence and my residence is in a same place. I had some mistrust against my wife character, that she was must fuck** by another person before our marriage and he had a love story on physical relation.
I had 5 times asked to my wife to tell me her any past physical relation. But she always refused and always says with a great confidence as well as takes my OATH that she is pure virgin and made for me and I am the first person in her life.
Some days ago, one of my younger sister said her my previous (before marriage) relationship with a girl in wittily sense. Then my wife asks me about my previous relation. Then I told her I will tell you, but you also have to tell me about your previous sex relation. After a little request, she was agree to open her sex story with this commitment of my story first.
Then I told her that I had sex with 3 girls before our marriage a lot of. Then she tells me that her brother-in-law’s brother had sex with her 5-6 time 4 year ago, as per my wife. I don’t know how many time she had sex with him. Then I asked her to tell another person, and then she refused. Then I asked why have you done? Then She says that some years ago her parents and her elder sister want to marry with her brother-in-law’ brother. So, in a good impression of this guy, she had sex with him. After one year of this incident, She told her parents that she will not marry with him, because now he begun to drink wine. So my wife begun to hate him and refuse to marry with him.
I love my wife so much. I should never ask such type of questions, but she started first and told when I told. I love her so much and believe her. But she broke my believe. And now, how can I believe her. How can I justify in front of her brother-in-law’s brother, who live in front of me.
I want to take an important action against her or my self. What should I do? Please must help me for my marriage life.
 
GROW UP! You sound like a child living in the 1950s, man. This is the TWENTY FIRST CENTURY, pal. It's OK for people to not be virgins when they get married.

You keep saying "I love her so much," but the title of your question asks, "should I love her?"

When you love somebody, it's not optional. Either you do or you don't. If you're going to punish this woman for making the terrible mistake of telling you the truth (since you're obviously too immature and too much of a puritan to handle it), you deserve to be alone.
 
If you want advice I advise you to get over it. What back dated times are you people living in?

If you loved your wife before this conversation you should continue to love her now. It does not change her as a person and it does not chamge her love for you.
 
If you want advice I advise you to get over it. What back dated times are you people living in?

If you loved your wife before this conversation you should continue to love her now. It does not change her as a person and it does not chamge her love for you.
 
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