Anabel Reid
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Should I divorce her or fight? We have been married for six years and money is our biggest fight. She gives me money for the house but as a couple I feel we should be doing it together. Other than her paycheck she has had over 60,000.00 extra and nothing to show. She lives paycheck to paycheck and thinks that is fine. I want more for us but she can't see the futrue that I want for us. She moved out because we were fighting all the time and she feels that I always put her down. Yes I have become distant and while we were still living together I had an affair, I still was active with my wife quite often so it was not about lack of sex.She found out later but she said she did not leave because I cheated she left because she felt I was always putting her down and not spending time with her anymore. We still have sex once a week and fight almost the same. I do love my wife and she loves me but I filed for divorce and now i'm not sure anymore. Can 2 people work something this bad out or should we move on.