my wife pisses me off! why is it that i never seem to feel appreciated? im sick of...

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...always being the bad guy? everytime i feel as though im making progress my wife always seems to find a way to show me that im not doing so good, this kills my confidence and not only that theres always me having an issue with something she says let her tell it but then when i think about it she always has something to say or ask. i feel like i get interrogated and i hate it...not to mention the little things i do for her never get honorable mention and no matter what she does no matter big or small i always make it my business to thank her and show my appreciation, i've been married for two years now and seperated from her twice...i'm trying to live righteously and do what is right in God's sight as well as for the betterment of myself and my children. i'm just exasperated with always eing the bad guy or the jerk when all i do is share my feelings that i was accused of never doing. now that i am to no avail it hindrs more than help. i am really at my wits end, and of course she would probably say the same. i just feel as if my wife talks entirely too much and always has something to say shy of positive in most situations...dont get me wrong i love my wife but everything she does is irking the hell out of me. so much to the point that i dont even want to have sex with her, and thats a dangerous place to be...so really i need no answers, other than talking to God i just needed to vent. maybe it'll all be fine one day but as of right now im tired as hell of it all!!!!