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Zowi Jim
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I am around.? She texts him constantly and before I approached her about her cell phone account she also called him constantly. She tells me he is just friends but I had to ask her about who this guy was to get that. She has gone out with him once that I know of. She said it was with a friend from the gym but didn't mention him. It was only after I talked to her about the cell phone calls did she say that he was there. I want to keep the marriage but I feel so betrayed right now. She hasn't come out and said she is having an affair but it crosses my mind every 20 min. Do I ask to see her face-book account to see what they are talking about? Do I ask to see the texts? What if she is telling me the truth and I am just paranoid?
She says she still loves me and want to stay with me but talks to this guy all the time.
What should I do?
I originally asked her not to talk to him until we met after I found out. She said she would but then I found her texting him. I got p.o. and told her it was him or me.. she got even more p.o. and said I didn't trust her. She said if I wanted to meet him she would be fine with that. We did meet.... for 5 min at his daughters game.... and didn't say much. She took this as she could start chatting with him again and has done so every day except for Sunday (I think). I am seeing a marriage counselor and getting ready to see a psychiatrist because I can't sleep or eat. I don't know what to do. She has said she would un-friend him on FB but I have a feeling it would start up somewhere else........ugh I can't think straight.....
She says she still loves me and want to stay with me but talks to this guy all the time.
What should I do?
I originally asked her not to talk to him until we met after I found out. She said she would but then I found her texting him. I got p.o. and told her it was him or me.. she got even more p.o. and said I didn't trust her. She said if I wanted to meet him she would be fine with that. We did meet.... for 5 min at his daughters game.... and didn't say much. She took this as she could start chatting with him again and has done so every day except for Sunday (I think). I am seeing a marriage counselor and getting ready to see a psychiatrist because I can't sleep or eat. I don't know what to do. She has said she would un-friend him on FB but I have a feeling it would start up somewhere else........ugh I can't think straight.....