frustrated4real
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I could watch her kids.? She called me and told me she picked a time that I had already told her that I was not available. She asked me to watch her kids at a time that I take a class at my gym and have been doing so for over a year. She was well aware of that. She was hoping that she could go to the doctor and be back in time, but that was not a guarantee that she could be back. I offerred her several other days and times that I would be happy to watch her kids. When I told her that she made the appointment on a day I could not watch her kids she told me I was selfish and never did her any favors. Now in the past I have watched her kids countless other times when she had things to do. I have even changed my plans in the past to watch her kids if she needed me to. Even this time after much going back and forth and getting my mother involved in this situation. I was hearing it from both sides that I was selfish for not doing this favor. Even after all this I agreed to alter my plans and watch her kids. I told my mom that all my sister had to do was call me, apologize for being so nasty and tell me what time she would bring the kids over. My sister called me later that evening, with an attitude, never apologized and we got into another fight. She hung up on me. Since we were no longer speaking I e-mailed her and told her that it was out of line to call me selfish and tell me I never do her favors. I told her a few of the times that I had helped her out with various things over the last few months. She responed and told me that she didn't know that I resented doing her favors and should not throw favors back in her face. I explained to her that I was not throwing them back in her face simply explaining that her allegation of never doing her favors was far from the truth. She tried to throw a guilt trip on me and told me that she thought having a sister was for helping each other out. It amazes me how she is being selfish and doesn't see it. I explained that you don't ask someone to do you a favor and then get mad at them if they can't do it. Even asking me in the first place was rude because she knows that I have plans every Thursday afternoon. I really feel like she owes me an apology, she feels that she doesn't. I really would like other opinion on who was out of line here.