Why does she always get everything her way? She gets to control everything with her kids, it's not fair. I want to do stuff with the kids, but she always says no to me. I than go ask my brother who's the dad, and he usually says yes to me, but than my SIL comes back and overrules him. I tell her that my brother said I could do what I want with the kids, but no she doesn't care. I mean why does she always feel like she has the right to overrule my brother? She feels like she's the boss of everybody, it's not fair. Don't you feel that she's being too controlling? What am I supposed to do with her?