my partner wont have sex with me and wont tell me why?

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my boyfriend and i have been together over 3 years and have a 17 month old child together. we have had very little sex since our child was born i try to talk to him about it and he says it turns him off if i do so i dont know what to do i do everything for him i never say no to something he wants to do i want to please him but the same doesnt go for him i asked him last night if i could give him oral sex and he said no becuase i will want to have sex that its never just a b.j sorry to be a bit crude. so im stuck i cant talk about with him becuase it turns into a arguement and he wont let me have sex with him either. i have a high sex drive and im only getting it at most once every 3 or 4 months
 
wow . . .
I would ask him in a non sexual setting to explain to you why he is so turned off by the idea of sex. write him a letter if its the only way to keep him from blowing up. and also explain to him that you have needs and desires.
i don't see a man just totally loosing his sex drive there is a serious problem. I have heard that some men loose their desire for sex when they have witnessed the birth of a child. but i don't see it affecting them to the point that it just stops them dead in there tracks like you describe.
consider all possibilities and if he still wont open up consider leaving him.
 
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