some weeks ago i have become worried about my partner spending long time on internet and closing windows when i walk in. When i confronted her about it she told me it was nothing going on and she was very defensive when i went near the computer or suggested answers, And all her passwords was changed so i can no longer know them. I had to fined things by myself so i have installed some secret software and i was right she had a chat with 1 male she was chating to him in morning afternoon night anytime he was on line and when he wasn't she was waiting for him to sign on. Many of their conversations where of sexual nature and she was repitedly teling him how much she missed him when he was not on line and also i realized that they have exchanged mob nb and sent messages. I confronted her again and she denied it all and reassured me that she loves me. 2 weeks later i have confronted her again but with my recordings (logs) from her web chats voice chats and textual chats as proof. Now she made me belive that he dident mean nothing to her and everithing she wrote was for fun and that it was not wrong to do things like that but it was very wrong that i have spied on her. And now she is the one mad at me i need help what do i do I m very hurt she still not accepting any wrong duing and she would rather me move out then accept.
my partner of 9 years have been having secret chats?
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