my partner is refusing to have sex with me?

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i posted a question earlier but thought i should post again to clarify the situation. me and my partner have been together over 3 years have a 17 month old child together. since the birth of our child we have had very little sex maybe once every 4 months at the most i lost all my baby weight within weeks im a attractive girl with lots of other male attention so i know its not anything physical putting him off when i try to talk to him about the lack of sex he just tells me its a turn off when i want to talk about it i bring it up every couple months because i get so sexually frusterated i give him oral sex at least once a week but i never get anythin in return and if i try to have sex with him he gets all pissy afterwords because i tricked him he says i know its rediculous i dont know what to do anymore any advice
im on birth control have been for over a year
he was there for the birth but i know its not that he loves out child very much thats why a seperation would be so difficult becuase of the close relationship they have
 
Perhaps hes afraid of you getting pregnant agai, even with protection. He may feel like another baby would be the last thing he'd want right now. Apart from that, I'm afraid I have no idea. I don't think hes having an affair, but don't rule it out either. Perhaps its worth being a bit more observant about where hes going and what hes doing. I don't wish to make you paranoid, but its a possibility.
 
your hubby is an idiot.

My advice - is lay it out on the table - get some counciling if he is afraid of your bits are seeing child birth or you walk.
Good luck
 
did he see you deliver your child? some men get turned off by all the blood and gore of childbirth and never say a word about it to you, but do things like this because of it. If it's not because of that then I'd say the guy is cheating on you for sure. Not hardly any men go that long without sex without getting it somewhere else. You've got some serious problems girl, and without him talking about it it won't get resolved. I'd say get the guy to talk to you seriously about whats going on in his head.
 
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