My parents have never straight up told me or ever mentioned sex- well at least not my step mom and dad but I see them order things online that have something involving that and they have a giant pole in their room for "excersize" but it even has a little pole dancing sign on the bottom like where the brand is. I was also trying to do something on my dad's phone and I saw pics of my step-mom top and bra-less. I'm a little freaked out (like I have little siblings who climb that pole and stuff) and I know sex is a natural and beautiful thing, and that's how I was brought into this world, but idk... like my mom told me that my dad wouldn't let her even wear a bathing suit, but she divorced him when she found him cheating... I just don't know what to do I'm kinda scared, is this normal for parents?