My parents are always complaining that marching band is messing with my grades. It's because my freshman year, I got a teacher that wouldn't even teach us and this year I've got 3 honors classes. They also say that its meaningless but I'm getting my letterman jacket for it. They say they're tired of having to pick me up late at night but next year I'll be driving my own car. They still won't let up and they're trying to get my brother out of band before high school. And their Nigerian, so they're really strict. What should I do?