ChubChubWinky
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The reason why I'm still living in my parents house is because I don't have the means to live on my own but, anyway. It seems like whenever my dad has the day off they'll start arguing. Sometimes it's about nothing but most of the times it is about something important. My mom is always insulting my dad for things because she thinks it will get her what she wants and that it will make him realize what he is doing wrong. They don't believe in divorce so I think they'll just end up in a loveless marriage. I know that when a marriage doesn't work it's usually BOTH of the spouses' faults. I'm in college right now and it's really disruptive and adds more stress than I need. Any thoughts?
I'm pretty sure that this isn't normal marital bickering. We've had a lot of problems with religious beliefs in the family and recently it has been coming to a head. Both my parents are Catholic but they both have different views.
Another factor is that both of them are very controlling. I'm also pretty sure that they do not have much in common.
I would like to suggest for them to go to therapy but neither of them (especially my dad) really believes in therapy and being the youngest in my family they probably won't listen to me and my mom will just say I have an over romanticized view of marriage. I seriously don't think I have an over romanticized view of marriage. I just want to be able to enjoy my future husband's company and not always be annoyed by him ( and also be annoying on my part) when he's home. I mean, after all, what's the point of getting married if you're not happy to be with your spouse when he/she is home? I know that it's not all sunshine and daisie
I'm pretty sure that this isn't normal marital bickering. We've had a lot of problems with religious beliefs in the family and recently it has been coming to a head. Both my parents are Catholic but they both have different views.
Another factor is that both of them are very controlling. I'm also pretty sure that they do not have much in common.
I would like to suggest for them to go to therapy but neither of them (especially my dad) really believes in therapy and being the youngest in my family they probably won't listen to me and my mom will just say I have an over romanticized view of marriage. I seriously don't think I have an over romanticized view of marriage. I just want to be able to enjoy my future husband's company and not always be annoyed by him ( and also be annoying on my part) when he's home. I mean, after all, what's the point of getting married if you're not happy to be with your spouse when he/she is home? I know that it's not all sunshine and daisie