my parents always complain that i get fooled by other people because i am

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sadat

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too shy and i lack courage.am i sick? i do silly mistakes in simple tasks such as while buying fruits i will get fooled by the shopkeeper.but i have noticed that when i am alone i do all the things nicely;i feel all this happens when i am doing something for my dad.although he is a wonderful father,yet i feel that the fear of him makes me do things wrongly.Please tell me how to overcome this
 
Some parents don't like disrespect, so they choose to have their children suppress their emotion.
Sometimes something bothers you but you can't complain about ta, to your parents because it may come out rude and disrespectful.
If you're old enough, you could stand up to your parents and address them about your feelings and what you think about them.

So anyway it's all best to stay calm, don't be nervous cause if you are everything you do will come out wrong.
Trying breathing out all the air and wait some seconds, breath in again and you'll notice that nervousness has left. Trying holding your breath, it does help too.
 
You have a temporary personality problem that can be overcome. I know because I have overcome it 90%. Shyness and lack of courage sometimes are a result of overprotecting or overcriticizing parents. One grows up and matures in many ways, and you will mature in self courage and assureness too, little by little a step at a time. It may take years so don`t despair. Outside professional help later on would be adviseable, but I didn`t need it. Things will naturally improve once your Dad`s omnipresence is gone, so try and get some friends that appreciate you and the way you are.
 
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