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My new husband is starting to delete his internet history daily?
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ctygrlndboons
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While we dated he would only delete internet history maybe once every few weeks but now that we are married(one month now) he is starting to clean in out daily. If it is not completely cleaned out, it is picked through and only the basics are left(email signin etc) when I know from conversation during the day that he's been to other sites. I have questioned why he did things in the past only a few times and his reaction is usualy "why don't you just trust me" and isn't very open about who he communicates with/what he does...should I be worried? This really isn't a good way to start a marriage.
You are not overreacting. You should feel alarm and suspicious by him deleting his internet history on a daily basis. He might be flirting with women through instant messages. He might have an addiction to going on pornographic websites. He might be going on personal sites like Craigslist by putting up postings and answering women's postings. You are not being paranoid. Your instincts may be right. In my experiences, my last girlfriend would have instant message conversations with guys when I was not with her. She saved them on her laptop. A few of them I found and read. On her home office computer, she kept pictures of past boyfriends and journal entries over the despair of her boyfriend before me who hurt her.
She kept her boyfriend before me on her Myspace as a contact.
When I told her that having him on her Myspace bothered me, she took him off. Weeks later when I went back on her myspace, she added him back onto her Myspace. When I became so upset (I broke up with her for a while), all she said was "He was there all along." I have no doubt that she spoke with him on the phone when I was not with her.
Three or four months into my relationship with her, I found out she was going on a personals website, OkCupid, to find a boyfriend. When I confronted her about going on that website, she immediately said, "Are you stalking me?"
She later told me that she was going on that site to just "fill out surveys."
Like Myspace and other social networking sites, OkCupid, showed the dates that she logged onto that site.
When she dumped me after eight months of being together on my old cell phone, she later went back to going on that website for a while answering more questions (some of which were bizarre).
You have to come up with a way to find out what he's doing on his computer. You might consider getting a camcorder and secretly placing it in your home where the computer is located. There has to be a reason why you do not trust him as he has done something or some things to warrant you not trusting him or guys in your past have hurt you.
I am sorry that your husband's actions are troubling you.
I hope that this helps. ~ Alan
She kept her boyfriend before me on her Myspace as a contact.
When I told her that having him on her Myspace bothered me, she took him off. Weeks later when I went back on her myspace, she added him back onto her Myspace. When I became so upset (I broke up with her for a while), all she said was "He was there all along." I have no doubt that she spoke with him on the phone when I was not with her.
Three or four months into my relationship with her, I found out she was going on a personals website, OkCupid, to find a boyfriend. When I confronted her about going on that website, she immediately said, "Are you stalking me?"
She later told me that she was going on that site to just "fill out surveys."
Like Myspace and other social networking sites, OkCupid, showed the dates that she logged onto that site.
When she dumped me after eight months of being together on my old cell phone, she later went back to going on that website for a while answering more questions (some of which were bizarre).
You have to come up with a way to find out what he's doing on his computer. You might consider getting a camcorder and secretly placing it in your home where the computer is located. There has to be a reason why you do not trust him as he has done something or some things to warrant you not trusting him or guys in your past have hurt you.
I am sorry that your husband's actions are troubling you.
I hope that this helps. ~ Alan
Hmmm....the other question is why you were looking through it so carefully. If I had noticed something like this, I would have assumed he had just changed the settings because some sites can cause problems if you don't do this.
But yah, you're right - it sounds like you don't trust him at all. I don't think anyone here can know whether you're overly suspcious, or whether you're picking up on something, but it sounds like the two of you need a good long chat.
But yah, you're right - it sounds like you don't trust him at all. I don't think anyone here can know whether you're overly suspcious, or whether you're picking up on something, but it sounds like the two of you need a good long chat.
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jarsue97
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Yes porn is the answer.
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