just-that-girl.
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my mum has always been pretty harsh on me but now it is getting worse and worse. she is now going on nearly everyday how unhealthy I am and always going on about how I need to go to the gym with her and she knows that I don't like gyms because of self confidence issues. She has recently been saying that I have to wear a long dress to my sisters wedding (I was only going to wear one that was about knee height) and that I am fat and everyday she is constantly going on about my weight and appearance. Now I am an hour glass figure and I have big boobs about a 14 DD-14 E (NZ measurement) I seem to just stay at the same weight no matter what I do and it has been like this for a few years now. Now I know I am not skinny and I have never been skinny or anything but I am about 5'8-5'9 18 years old and about 80kgs.
I already have issues with my appearance that restricts me a lot and my own mum telling my how fat I am and what I can or can't wear it making it worse! she can't even accept me. My boyfriend says he loves my body but I still cant get over this.
oh also she has been going to the gym and living 'perfectly' and healthy for three years and not much has changed for her so I don't know why she is getting on my back about it soo much.
I already have issues with my appearance that restricts me a lot and my own mum telling my how fat I am and what I can or can't wear it making it worse! she can't even accept me. My boyfriend says he loves my body but I still cant get over this.
oh also she has been going to the gym and living 'perfectly' and healthy for three years and not much has changed for her so I don't know why she is getting on my back about it soo much.