Middle East
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My wedding was going to be this month , me and him and my mum agreed on everything , and everything was almost planned , then i was going to meet his mum , then she told him no way to marry this person and she made every one in his family against him . Saying you can't marry old women and also divorced , i am 35 years old and she thinks i am old for him , She has got him a lot of ladies to marry but didn't work out , i asked myself few months ago what can happen with your mum he said no worries all be ok , specially after he told me she went staying with his brother for 6 months then she come back and complain about his wife saying she can't cook well from this moment i did know she is not easy person to deal . by the way he told her that i will go and marry no matter what you say , she went sick and he had to take her to doctor and he is afraid to loose his mum whom i think is acting just to have control over her son life , and she made him swear not to talk to me again as if he is kid and he kept his word i haven't heard anything from for 2 months now . He is 41 years old , I really love him , but i have no idea how to deal with this , And you don't find love everyday.This person who never met me is destroying my life at moment i really would like to find a way to deal with situation . She just want to keep him for herself , he is not young anymore , And he told me i wont meet you again because i am afraid to get back to you and this could harm my mum . i know he is not bad person , he is just real weak person who can't get control over his life . DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEAS ? She saying it is matter of culture . And he did shout at her for first time in his life because of me , I need help .