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I admit I don't like my mother-in-law she is the type that thinks she is better than everybody and everybody else just isn't as good as her. With that said I have tried everything for the sake of my husband in the last year. I have tried talking to her through email. "We live in different states" Most of the time I didn't get one email back from her or that side of the family. I just had a baby she never once called me or sent an email asking me how I was doing or anything. She would ask my husband my husband normally only talks to her on his cell when I am not around. When he is home and talks to her he is either out of the room or keeps a low tone.
She came into town when I was pregnant and on bed rest and they ditched me the whole weekend. They were out and about and hanging out in her hotel room. "guess they didn't want to hang out with me" So I got stuck cleaning the house and getting last min baby stuff together because I was set to be induced soon. I called him mad because I had so much work to do and I was tired and really wanted some help I heard her say just hang up the phone. Well when they were both around me for about 2 hrs that whole weekend there was a strange awkwardness. Like they both didn't want to be there and they had a conversation but I was never included in it. It was like I wasn't even there and I would say something and they both would look at me like whatever! So with how they were acting I am not stupid you can tell when someone has been talking about you behind your back! "I just had that gut feeling".
Well his family sent a card congratulating him on the birth of our daughter and of course my name wasn't on there. Today got a package in the mail " I am assuming it's something for the baby" But it's addressed to my husband. I just wanted some opinions on this? Some serious answers on what do you think the deal is with what I just said? Should I be upset over a stupid congratulations card and a package as well? Idk just some opinion would be great thx.
I just want to add I feel like I am being totally disrespected and don't know what to do about it? I tried talking to my husband and all he said was I didn't have to like his mom if I don't want too & I know nothing is what he said when I brought all of this up.
She came into town when I was pregnant and on bed rest and they ditched me the whole weekend. They were out and about and hanging out in her hotel room. "guess they didn't want to hang out with me" So I got stuck cleaning the house and getting last min baby stuff together because I was set to be induced soon. I called him mad because I had so much work to do and I was tired and really wanted some help I heard her say just hang up the phone. Well when they were both around me for about 2 hrs that whole weekend there was a strange awkwardness. Like they both didn't want to be there and they had a conversation but I was never included in it. It was like I wasn't even there and I would say something and they both would look at me like whatever! So with how they were acting I am not stupid you can tell when someone has been talking about you behind your back! "I just had that gut feeling".
Well his family sent a card congratulating him on the birth of our daughter and of course my name wasn't on there. Today got a package in the mail " I am assuming it's something for the baby" But it's addressed to my husband. I just wanted some opinions on this? Some serious answers on what do you think the deal is with what I just said? Should I be upset over a stupid congratulations card and a package as well? Idk just some opinion would be great thx.
I just want to add I feel like I am being totally disrespected and don't know what to do about it? I tried talking to my husband and all he said was I didn't have to like his mom if I don't want too & I know nothing is what he said when I brought all of this up.