my mom is so busy she hardly notices me and my brother and sisters anymore...

[Stéphanie]

...what should i do? my mom works full time because she has to and I fully understand this she is a single parent and she is doing the best she can for us. But when she gets home at like 8 o clock at night she's pissed and mostly yells at us to do stuff and instead of spending an hour with us before going to sleep she goes off with her boyfriend. She always talks about how the kids come first and I don't understand how she doesn't realize she's doing this. Even on the weekend she spends all her time with him, and whenever I need to get a word in or need her help or advice she's either literally somewhere else or mentally somewhere else. It didn't used to be like this and I hate it so much. I am 18 but I'm living at home while I'm at junior college and I hope I don't sound too dependent or anything but I'm still at home and I would like my mom to enjoy our presence once in a while. I can't even tell her because she won't understand and she'll yell at me. What should I do