neverendinqlove
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Okay so recently I finally told my mom I'm bisexual and that I have an amazing girlfriend (who she's seen a few times but never knew it was her), anyway when I told her she said well what about your boyfriend you had for almost a year and a half, I tell her I'm not sure we just weren't working out and I just didn't want him anymore. SO she says it's just a phase, what I'm saying is, it can't be a phase I love females and males , more so females because I connect much easier on a mental and emotional level and because the physical attraction is beyond describe able but she's telling me I have to wait until I'm 21 to make my final decision on what I want my sexuality to be. She told me if later on down the line I decide to be with a female she's behind me 100%, but I need a legitimate reason to give her that this is NOT a phase and that I do like females, but I can't help it. I don't know how to explain that boyfriend, he was a total mistake but that's a different story for a different time. SO someone please help me in trying to convince my mom in telling her that this is who I am even if I'm young and this is what I want.