Victoria Truong
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Me and my husband have been married since 2009, since then my husband has refuse to put me in DEERS, and in December 2010 he has stopped giving me BAH. He gets BAH with dependents and he is suppose to spend that money on our rent. However, he doesn't. I have contacted his command every week since the December and now it's February. His command won't help me. I also tried base legal and fleet and family services. They told me to keep bugging his command. I filed for divorce 2010 after he stopped giving me any money for BAH. I can't even get spousal support since my hearing was so late, his ship deployed. He is protected under some kind of service members act. I even have the navy instructions that says a spouse is entitled to 1/3 gross pay. Now I am just stuck while he spends all our money, I even had to drop out of college this semester. I decided to write my congressmen today, but I desperately need to know if there's anything else I could do. There is no justice in this.
okay the person who said what makes me think i am entitled to what he makes must not understand what BAH with dependents mean, why don't I work? I never said that I didn't, but in this economy, we all know how difficult it is to find a job that makes enough. And I don't want the marriage either hence the divorce filing, but I want what I am entitled to, and yes that is part of his pay. I need real answers not one from people who don't know what they're talking about.
okay the person who said what makes me think i am entitled to what he makes must not understand what BAH with dependents mean, why don't I work? I never said that I didn't, but in this economy, we all know how difficult it is to find a job that makes enough. And I don't want the marriage either hence the divorce filing, but I want what I am entitled to, and yes that is part of his pay. I need real answers not one from people who don't know what they're talking about.